Welcome to today’s journaling exploration. As we approach the year’s end, I’m sharing a profound prompt that appears in both Write Your Way and The Art of Journaling. This question invites us to examine one of our most fundamental beliefs—our definition of success.
Why This Prompt Matters
We live in a world that often presents a one-size-fits-all version of success: career achievements, material wealth, and social status. Yet, in both Write Your Way and The Art of Journaling, I emphasize the importance of developing our own deeply personal definitions of success. These definitions become our compass, guiding our decisions and shaping our journey.
Today’s Prompt
“How do I define success?”
Notice that this prompt doesn’t ask about society’s definition of success or your family’s expectations. It asks for your authentic perspective on what constitutes a successful life, career, relationship, or day.
Let Me Share an Example
Here’s how I might respond to this prompt:
“Success, for me, is about alignment—when my actions, values, and aspirations work in harmony. It’s in the quiet satisfaction of ending a day knowing I’ve created something meaningful, helped someone grow, or learned something new. Success isn’t a destination I’ll one day reach, but rather moments strung together: the focused breath before writing, the genuine connection in a conversation, the courage to choose growth over comfort. It’s about having the freedom to pursue what matters most to me while contributing positively to others’ lives. Perhaps most importantly, success is about maintaining inner peace amid external challenges.”
Making This Prompt Work for You
Consider these dimensions:
- What does success feel like in your body?
- When do you feel most successful?
- What memories come to mind when you think of personal success?
- How has your definition of success evolved over time?
- What role do others play in your vision of success?
A Deeper Reflection
Our definition of success often unconsciously drives our decisions, reactions, and goals. By bringing this definition into conscious awareness, we can examine whether it truly serves our highest good. Does your current definition energize and inspire you, or does it create pressure and anxiety?
Your Journey Begins
Take time now to explore your personal definition of success. Write freely, allowing yourself to question inherited beliefs and cultural assumptions. Consider different areas of your life—what does success look like in your relationships? Your personal growth? Your contribution to the world?
Remember, this definition isn’t fixed. As you grow and evolve, your understanding of success may shift. The power lies in maintaining an ongoing dialogue with yourself about what truly matters.
Ready to explore more transformative questions about success and personal growth? Discover deeper insights in Write Your Way and The Art of Journaling.
